Relationship Reset: Becoming Secure in Love
A 3-Day Virtual Relationship Experience for Women
October 16–18, 2026 | LIVE ONLINE | FREE
In a Relationship
Dating
Starting Over
Navigating Complicated Family Relationships

You’ve done the work. So why does love still feel so hard?
->You've read the books.
->You've listened to the podcasts.
->You've promised yourself this relationship would be different.
And yet somehow you still find yourself overthinking the text...
Keeping the peace instead of saying what you really need...
Doing more and more to hold the relationship together...
Choosing someone who can't quite meet you...
Or wondering why the same issues keep showing up—even when the person changes.
This summit is for that moment.
The Relationship Reset Summit is a free, 3-day virtual experience bringing together relationship experts, therapists, coaches, and wellness practitioners to help you understand what's happening beneath your relationship struggles—and give you practical tools to begin creating something different.
Whether you're in a relationship, dating, starting over after divorce or heartbreak, or navigating complicated family relationships, you're invited.
Stop repeating the patterns.
Start creating more secure, connected love.

I am a woman who...
Trusts Herself
Asks For What She Needs
Recognizes When An Old Pattern Is Taking Over
Doesn't Abandon Herself To Keep Someone Else
Sets Boundaries Without Drowning In Guilt
Can Stay Connected To Herself Through Conflict
Chooses Emotionally Available Love
Knows What Healthy Connection Feels Like
Believes She Deserves To Receive As Much As She Gives
The things keeping you stuck aren't who you are.
They're patterns. And patterns can change.
That's why we're coming together—to recognize what's been repeating, understand what's driving it, and begin creating a new way of loving and relating.

Meet Your Hosts

Amber Lavin
Amber Lavin

Cindy Shaw
Founder of Pattern Intelligence
Cindy works with clients to help them lead and love without losing themselves. At the core of her work is helping people recognize the patterns quietly shaping their relationships, choices and lives—and create new, healthier ones.
Her signature 5-Step Pattern Intelligence™ Roadmap guides clients through Pattern Blindness → Awareness → Interruption → Intentional Response → Integration, helping them move beyond simply understanding why they do what they do and actually begin creating lasting change.
As a coach, author and creator of Pattern Intelligence™, Cindy brings together years of personal experience, human behavior work and practical tools to help people stop repeating what isn’t working and start creating what they truly want.
Expert Teaching
Short, focused sessions filled with practical insights and tools.
Guided Practices
Meditation, embodiment, reflection and other opportunities to experience what you're learning.
Integration
Space to journal, reflect and decide what these insights mean for your life.
Ready For Your Relationship Reset?
Your Free Pass Includes:
Attend unlimited sessions throughout the weekend
Live access to all three days
10+ expert sessions
Women's Circle Panel
Guided practices & reflection
Live opening & integration experiences with Amber & Cindy