Relationship Reset: Becoming Secure in Love

A 3-Day Virtual Relationship Experience for Women

October 16–18, 2026 | LIVE ONLINE | FREE

This Summit Is For You If You're...

  • In a Relationship

  • Dating

  • Starting Over

  • Navigating Complicated Family Relationships

LOVE WAS SUPPOSED TO GET EASIER BY NOW...

You’ve done the work. So why does love still feel so hard?

->You've read the books.

->You've listened to the podcasts.

->You've promised yourself this relationship would be different.

And yet somehow you still find yourself overthinking the text...

Keeping the peace instead of saying what you really need...

Doing more and more to hold the relationship together...

Choosing someone who can't quite meet you...

Or wondering why the same issues keep showing up—even when the person changes.

This summit is for that moment.

The Relationship Reset Summit is a free, 3-day virtual experience bringing together relationship experts, therapists, coaches, and wellness practitioners to help you understand what's happening beneath your relationship struggles—and give you practical tools to begin creating something different.

Whether you're in a relationship, dating, starting over after divorce or heartbreak, or navigating complicated family relationships, you're invited.

Stop repeating the patterns.

Start creating more secure, connected love.

Imagine Being Able To Say

I am a woman who...

  • Trusts Herself

  • Asks For What She Needs

  • Recognizes When An Old Pattern Is Taking Over

  • Doesn't Abandon Herself To Keep Someone Else

  • Sets Boundaries Without Drowning In Guilt

  • Can Stay Connected To Herself Through Conflict

  • Chooses Emotionally Available Love

  • Knows What Healthy Connection Feels Like

  • Believes She Deserves To Receive As Much As She Gives

The things keeping you stuck aren't who you are.

They're patterns. And patterns can change.

That's why we're coming together—to recognize what's been repeating, understand what's driving it, and begin creating a new way of loving and relating.

Meet Your Hosts

Amber Lavin

Relationship & Dating Coach

Amber Lavin

Relationship & Dating Coach

Cindy Shaw

Founder of Pattern Intelligence

Cindy works with clients to help them lead and love without losing themselves. At the core of her work is helping people recognize the patterns quietly shaping their relationships, choices and lives—and create new, healthier ones.

Her signature 5-Step Pattern Intelligence™ Roadmap guides clients through Pattern Blindness → Awareness → Interruption → Intentional Response → Integration, helping them move beyond simply understanding why they do what they do and actually begin creating lasting change.

As a coach, author and creator of Pattern Intelligence™, Cindy brings together years of personal experience, human behavior work and practical tools to help people stop repeating what isn’t working and start creating what they truly want.

Expert Teaching

Short, focused sessions filled with practical insights and tools.

Guided Practices

Meditation, embodiment, reflection and other opportunities to experience what you're learning.

Integration

Space to journal, reflect and decide what these insights mean for your life.

Ready For Your Relationship Reset?

Your Free Pass Includes:

Attend unlimited sessions throughout the weekend

  • Live access to all three days

  • 10+ expert sessions

  • Women's Circle Panel

  • Guided practices & reflection

  • Live opening & integration experiences with Amber & Cindy