Relationship Reset: Becoming Secure in Love

A 3-Day Virtual Relationship Experience for Women

October 16–18, 2026 | LIVE ONLINE | FREE

Relationship Reset: Becoming Secure in Love

A Free 3-Day Virtual Relationship Retreat for Women

Join us October 16–18, 2026 for a free live online experience designed for women who want to understand the patterns shaping their relationships, build greater inner security and self-trust, and create healthier love.

Through real conversations, relationship experts, and practical tools, you'll explore the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships and learn new ways to respond, connect, and create lasting change.

Whether you're currently in a relationship, navigating challenges in love, or simply ready to create healthier relationship patterns, Relationship Reset: Becoming Secure in Love is an opportunity to step back, look within, and begin creating a different love story.

Who This Relationship Retreat Is For

You're...

  • In a Relationship

  • Dating

  • Starting Over

  • Navigating Complicated Family Relationships

LOVE WAS SUPPOSED TO GET EASIER BY NOW...

You’ve done the work. So why does love still feel so hard?

->You've read the books.

->You've listened to the podcasts.

->You've promised yourself this relationship would be different.

And yet somehow you still find yourself overthinking the text...

Keeping the peace instead of saying what you really need...

Doing more and more to hold the relationship together...

Choosing someone who can't quite meet you...

Or wondering why the same issues keep showing up—even when the person changes.

This retreat is for that moment.

Your Free Relationship Reset Retreat is a 3-day virtual experience bringing together relationship experts from all over the world to help you understand what's happening beneath your relationship struggles—and give you practical tools to begin creating something different.

Whether you're in a relationship, dating, starting over after divorce or heartbreak, or navigating complicated family relationships, you're invited.

Come build healthier relationship patterns, self-trust, inner security, emotional stability, boundaries, healthier love

Stop repeating the patterns.

Start creating more secure, connected love.

Imagine Being Able To Say

I am a woman who...

  • Trusts Herself

  • Asks For What She Needs

  • Recognizes When An Old Pattern Is Taking Over

  • Doesn't Abandon Herself To Keep Someone Else

  • Sets Boundaries Without Drowning In Guilt

  • Can Stay Connected To Herself Through Conflict

  • Chooses Emotionally Available Love

  • Knows What Healthy Connection Feels Like

  • Believes She Deserves To Receive As Much As She Gives

The things keeping you stuck aren't who you are.

They're patterns. And patterns can change.

That's why we're coming together—to recognize what's been repeating, understand what's driving it, and begin creating a new way of loving and relating.

Learn From Relationship Experts — Live Online

Meet Your Hosts

Amber Lavin

Relationship & Dating Coach

Amber is a dating & relationship expert specializing in mind-body connections, attachment theory, and mindfulness practices. Her mission is to help individuals navigate the complexities of dating/relationships and form meaningful, lasting connections through a holistic and evidence-based approach.

She supports individuals with embodied & intentional dating/relationships. She believes that successful relationships start with self-awareness and understanding one's emotional needs and patterns. Her practice is grounded in attachment theory, somatic awareness, and real-world tools that create lasting change.

Cindy Shaw

Founder of Pattern Intelligence

Cindy works with clients to help them lead and love without losing themselves. At the core of her work is helping people recognize the patterns shaping their relationships, choices and lives—and create new, healthier ones.

Her signature 5-Step Pattern Intelligence™ Roadmap guides them to move beyond simply understanding why they do what they do and actually create lasting change.

As a coach and author, Cindy brings together years of personal experience, human behavior work, and practical tools to help people stop repeating what isn’t working and start creating what they truly want.

Expert Teaching

Short, focused sessions filled with practical insights and tools.

Guided Practices

Meditation, embodiment, reflection and other opportunities to experience what you're learning.

Integration

Space to journal, reflect and decide what these insights mean for your life.

Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns and Build Greater Self-Trust

Your Free Pass Includes:

Attend unlimited sessions throughout the weekend

  • Live access to all three days

  • 10+ expert sessions

  • Women's Circle Panel

  • Guided practices & reflection

  • Live opening & integration experiences with Amber & Cindy